Honestly, if you truly love someone, you will not tell them how to live their lives, or who to be. Love is not trying to change people into the image you have cast for them. That is judgment that who he or she chooses to be is wrong, and the frequency of judgment transmitted only brings back the same signal of judgment.
Love is accepting others for who they choose to be. If an individual freely chooses to no longer lives life as they have, that is their right to do so. However, if you influence them to make that choice, you have become their lord and master, and then you become accountable for whatever occurs as a result.
That’s the energetic truth of being a judge of others. You are allowing your perception of the situation to pull your heart strings, but you are supposed to be master of your own soul. What one chooses to do is neither right nor wrong, until it is not bringing them what they desire for their own lives.
You cannot decide right and wrong for anyone but self. I know we all have been indoctrinated, almost from birth, to label and judge based on our own subjection to ego, but if any of us will be saved, it is from judgment, not from a make-believe Hell.
Begin to vibrate exclusively on the frequency of love, and watch how you begin to become master of your own life. Yes, there will be situations you perceive which may impact your emotions, but do not allow those emotions to distract you from your accountability for creating the life you desire.
Resistance is futile. Let people live. All this attempting to change who people are in just you asserting yourself as their god(dess), when their god(dess) dwells exclusively within them. Their god(dess) will guide them into their truth.
Karma is the teacher to get each of us to return to our own truths. You’re really only blocking people’s repentance by telling them what they should believe about themselves. Their instructions are written upon their innermost being. If you would lead them to anything, let it be to themselves.